Steps to Soulmate Attraction: Part 1 of 4


In order to acquire anything in the physical universe, you have to relinquish your attachment to it. This doesn’t mean you give up the intention to create your desire; it means you give up your attachment to the result.
– Deepak Chopra, “The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success”

Lets start discussing how to manifest Soulmates, shall we? (This will be th first in a series of three on this subject… so much to say, so little time, lol).

As we know the Soulmate is someone with whom we feel a deep and profound connection. Someone with whom we share love unconditionally. On a spiritual level, we recognize the soulmate as “familiar” instantly. In my life, when I’ve met a new love or a new friend and we talk and talk for hours, realizing at some point the entire night is gone and perhaps the sun is coming up, I get that “ding -ding-ding!” feeling. It feels good to met people we recognize.

I also believe that we all have intended soulmates. Yes… more than one. They come in the form of animals, friends, family, and lovers. But, that said, I also believe that we can sabotage these relationships out of habit or fear. With that, I want to note that a big part of manifesting the love you want is about letting go of past hurts; preparing for your future self and your future love often requires we let go of baggage and emotional wounds.

For me, the paramount technique to manifesting love is THE LAW OF ATTRACTION: the law of attraction basically says that you will attract people, events, experiences, etc, that match your state of being. And really its super simple: focus on the gratitude for the love companionship, friendships, and joy you have in your life RIGHT NOW and more of the same will be attracted to you. On the other hand, focus on your sickness, your poor relationship with your mother or siblings, that no good so-and-so and everything he’s done wrong the past five years… and guess what. Well, lets just say things will not get better anytime soon.

When I began to really understand the Laws of Attraction and preparation to manifest a soul mate, a master psychic friend of mine explained that I had to begin the process of “living as if.” And I’d be like “What?”, and he’d be like “You heard me!” What he was trying to impart is that I needed to begin to let my imagination flow regarding my future mate. Feel him, laying next to me. Feel him, at the supermarket shopping with me. Feel him coming to me. And just know, like I know, like I know that he’s walking toward me while I’m sitting here right now. Its the belief that your soul mate exists and is already yours.

Now, once you feel you know he (or she) is coming. And once you feel that you’ve let go of the hurts that of bound and blocked you in the past. You are ready to place your order… Think about it, in life we go to the carwash… we don’t say, “hey, maybe could ya like maybe wash my car? Maybe?”. No. we say, “I brought the car for a wash. Thanks.” And we expect the car to get washed. When you do into your favorite coffee place you place an order, “Half-caf, vent, vanilla, latte, no foam”. We are decided. WE ARE ORDERING BECAUSE WE HAVE AN EXPECTATION THAT WE KNOW WILL GET MET. What if a attracting a mate was just like that?

Certainly, the Universe isn’t as immediate. But, certainly, you must be just as exact. But, remember, knowing what you want means knowing what you DON’T WANT. You must really dig seep into your soul on this one. Don’t act fast! Reflect and be specific. Then find a time and place that is meaningful to you to declare it to the Universe – like a full moon, or a beautiful lake or ocean in your area, or even after a lovely candle lit bath. Its what feels good to you that matters.

Once you’ve chosen a time of day and location that feels right for you. Sit and read your list out loud, allowing the feeling of every word, trait, quality and desire to ripple through you. Then, as an act of faith that your wishes have been heard and granted, put it into a fire-safe container and burn it. Yes – burn it. As your list is turning to ash, know that your deepest intentions are being handed over to unseen forces that will orchestrate the time and place when you will one day meet your soul mate. Release the ashes into a body of water (the ocean, a river, a lake, etc.), or if that isn’t possible or practical, release them into a garden or park.

Then sit quietly for a few minutes with your eyes closed, feeling your heart opening and expanding and knowing your prayers have been released to the powers of the universe. In the quiet of your heart, send a message to your beloved that you are looking forward to seeing him or her soon.

Please know that my intentions are always to help you get the life and love you desire and deserve.

Love and more love,


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